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choices. Labels: thoughts
these past few days have been very nice...and now i have to wonder...
did i make the right choice?
or, more importantly, is a choice ever right or wrong?
from what i see, choices are what create the essence of one's life.
i don't think there is ever a wrong choice... just the 'advantageous' choices and the 'disadvantageous' choices...
just because you made a choice that yielded a not-so-pleasant result doesn't mean it's wrong.
maybe its just comes down to whether you truly wanted that choice, or had made it because of something or someone else...
i mean, it's your choice, not anyone else, and making it doesn't have to depend on anyone else but you...it doesn't have to follow a system...it doesn't have to be verified by scientific truths...it's something you create from your own point of view...so i don't think it's appropriate to judge it as wrong or right.
but even if that is so...there's no denying the fact that we sometimes regret the choices we make...
it's just so frustrating to think that it had been laid out for me, on a silver platter, served with elegant garnishes and genuine spice...and all i said was 'i'd better go inside'...
(i can almost hear lexie's rant of agreement..haha! ^_^)
now it's all pale and withered...and virtually non-existent...as far as i know anyway (and these past few months prove that i do not know anything at all)
so, did i make the right choice?
considering that my choice had made me happy, made me experience more of life, gave me the wildest emotional rollercoaster of my life, got me into a lot of complications and had been completely my own decision...
it did not give the exact result as i hoped it would...
but, yeah, by my standards, it was right.
because it was mine. and it made me a better person.
...anyone who objects...cannot. ^_^
*Life is a choice, and i choose to believe that it is.*